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Such a Time As This

Faith, Hope, & Love

02/01/2018

My Interview with the Author of the Amazing True Story: The Impossible

The Impossible

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Do miracles still exist? It was the question that started a Biblical and Theological discussion between my husband and I. Every once in a while we like to tackle philosophical questions together on a carefree afternoon.  It was this one afternoon, however, that I remember so vividly because my husband asked a poignant question.  He wondered why although we sometimes hear of modern-day healings, we don’t hear about those who are raised from the dead?

 

I mean, in the Bible that topic is covered in both the Old and New Testament – but not in our world right now.  Certainly never in America.

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01/24/2018

How to Stay Epidural-Free During Your Induction

manage labor pain during induction

(I’m not a doctor or a midwife, just a mama of 7.  Ask your midwife or OBGYN for ways to manage labor pain when being induced during your own labor and delivery.)

 

It was my third birth and I was tired.  Strapped into the hospital bed, I finally cracked.  “Ok – just give me the epidural.” I pleaded with the nurse.  I had dilated to 6 cm and had been in labor for about 7 hours. She quickly left the room to fetch the anesthesiologist.

 

Hubby looked at me. “Are you sure?” He said. “I thought you wanted to go natural this time.” Can’t do this. Not with this Pitocin, I thought.  “I need the epidural,”  the waves of agonizing pain made me grip the bed even harder.

 

Minutes later the doctor and nurses were by my bedside numbing my back.  I leaned over, gripping hubby, as they inserted a sharp needle into the epidural space near my spine.  I hate this part, I thought, as more horrid waves of pain rushed through me.  Minutes later my blood pressure fell.  The next contraction started low and ran up my belly.  I begged the doctor to make the pain stop, but it was happening.  The baby descended so quickly – it left no time for the epidural to take effect.

 

This can’t be happening. I said aloud.  This can’t be happening.

 

After I recovered from that birth, I was sad.  There had to be a better way.  A better way to cope with labor than being strapped to a hospital bed, Pitocin running through my veins, begging for pain meds that didn’t even work.  Seriously.  Is it possible to manage labor pain when being induced?

 

So, I searched and searched and found a much better way.  I birthed my next four without the use of pain meds (even though 2 were Pitocin inductions!) I had epidural-free inductions with all four of my last births.

manage labor pain when being induction

 


How to Have an Epidural-Free Induction

 

Walk

Why do all these pregnant women walk around the labor and delivery wing? A couple of reasons: Walking helps the baby descend, which puts pressure on your cervix, and can speed up contractions.  I addition to this, it also helps with pain.  I remember walking during many of my births and walking and standing helped dramatically to lessen the pain.

 

Lean & Sway

When your energy runs low, try leaning over a chair or hold your partner and sway.  This can bring amazing relief during intense contractions.

 

Water

Most likely, if you already are on a Pitocin drip you won’t be allowed to do this next thing. But, getting in a warm bath can ease the pain.  During my 5th birth, I was able to use the jacuzzi style bathtub, in my hospital room, and it was like a mini epidural.  No, it didn’t numb me, but it did help me cope with the pain.  If you can’t get in a bath, try a shower!

 

Birthing Ball

Try using a birthing ball. I used one for my last four births and during transition, I only wanted that ball.  The best thing is to place it against the side of the bed.  Sit on the ball with your hips spread slightly for balance and then rock back and forth – while holding the bed for support.  Do what feels comfortable.  For me, I found this to help baby descend. It was also good to move in this rhythmic motion during contractions.  The best part is it allowed my baby and contractions to be monitored while also allowing me to be hooked up to the IV.

 

Squatting Bar

The squatting bar is known, also, as a birthing bar.  Your nurse can hook it up to your bed.  You just hold on to it and squat during the contractions.  This bar allows your pelvis to expand and helps by using gravity to pull the baby low.

 

Peanut Ball

If you need to lie down, this one might help you.  It is like a double birth ball which you can use while lying on your side.  Simply straddle the ball between your legs during contractions.  This helps keep your pelvis wide.  There is actually some research that shows this can shorten your labor: here.

 

Kneeling

This is one I’ve used during a few labors.  Just hop on the bed and get into a kneeling position.  Lean backward with your arms at the top of the bed near the pillow (with the bed in an upright position).  It can really help to lean this way if you are experiencing back labor.

Distractions

I became aware of the importance of distractions during my 6th labor.  I was in a slow, easy, labor all day which became frustrating and tiring.  Once the Pitocin was hooked up and the contractions became powerful I was unable to move as much as I wanted.  Hubby pulled out his iPad and turned on an episode of the comedy, The Office, on Netflix.  I wouldn’t have believed it was possible to focus so much and get so lost in the moment during delivery.  However, it was eye-opening.  The power of distracting yourself away from the moment.  Not dwelling on the pain allowed my body to do its thing.

 

Breathing

Breathing is important.  For many reasons breathing is important, however, we are talking about the power of managed breath.  During my last labor, I forgot this and had a small episode hyper-ventilating toward the end of transition.  You have to remember to breathe.  One type of labor breathing that has worked for me is this: Once a strong contraction hits you need breath deeply and then let out a slow long sigh-breath.  It helps relax your body, provides much-needed oxygen to your muscles, and pushes you through the pain.  For more information on how to breathe through contractions click here.

 

Support

Having a support person can make all the difference.  You need one person who can advocate for your needs.  This might be your husband or it might be a doula.  My hubby jokes that he’s my doula, but in all seriousness, without his love and support, it would have been hard to follow through on having natural births.

 

I hope these steps help manage your labor pain when being induced. What helps ease the pain during your labors?

 

P.S. Don’t forget to print out your labor and delivery checklist here! 

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01/17/2018

Our Fall Semester 2017 Reading List {5th and 7th Grade Reading List}

7th grade reading list

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This semester Africa is our main focus for history and science.  We’ve mixed in some missionary biographies and other non-fiction in with our studies.  We also are using Brave Writer for our language arts this semester.  The read alouds which are fiction were inspired by Brave Writer.

 

I put together a reading basket for each of my kids which fit their personality and reading level.  I want them to be challenged but not bogged down.  Through this, they work on fluency, vocabulary, and reading comprehension.  To be honest, they enjoy reading and I want that to continue.

 

Non-Fiction Read Alouds (5th & 7th Grade Reading List)

We started reading The Word Came with Power last semester, but with the move we lost the book. Ooops!  When we found it again we picked up where we left off.  It is an amazing story of a young woman’s missionary journey to the Philippines and my older kids and I recommend it.

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01/15/2018

To the Missional Moms in the Trenches: God Made You for This

Here we are two weeks into the new year and I’m already off track on some of my resolutions.  I mean — I had a little goal of reading a huge stack of books.  I got halfway into “20,000 Leagues Under the Sea” and I quit. Cold turkey.

 

Some of my New Years #resolutions #momblogger #homeschoolingblog #reading #booklover #read #charlottemasonlife #classics #literature #infjproblems #writersofinstagram #writing #momlife

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For half of my life, I’ve kind of dreamed of reading this book.  And then I would put it off.  And put it off some more.  There it was, a few days before the clock would strike midnight and give birth to a new year and I saw its navy blue binding calling out from my bright white bookshelf.  Picking it up, I read the first chapter and decided I would definitely read it this year.

 

It’s like the old saying: I can accomplish anything I set my mind to.

 

But then life happened.  I can’t even blame the kids or my busy life. The plot left me bored.  And so, here I am behind on one of my resolutions.  Because when I quit reading that book – I quit reading all my books.  I felt defeated.

 

Are you with me?  Defeated?  When our plans don’t come to fruition…Not a fun place to be.

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01/14/2018

Why You Need to Stop Saying You Have Your Hands Full

you have your hands full

It happens everyday.  A mom stands in her bathroom waiting to see 2 pink lines pop up.  And through a haze of what ifs and to-dos she asks herself when she is going to dare share her news?  

 

Many moms of large families are choosing to wait to tell, later and later, and some not even share at all.  

 

It All Starts with 3

It started after I had my 3rd.  People naturally assumed that I was done having children.  I now had gotten my girl – after my repeat boys.  It was the natural order of things to stop and put away the baby gear, sweet cuddly blankets, and of course my baby making organs.  I must be getting those fixed or broken or whatever it is they’re calling it these days.

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